Holidays & Dilemmas?

Have you ever heard the saying โ€œyou cannot control others, only yourself?โ€ Itโ€™s amazing how much itโ€™s true. We canโ€™t control anyone outside of ourselves, including our kids/significant other/family/etc. With the holidays, come the questions. โ€œWhat does so & so want for ... insert any gift holiday here?โ€ *Throw hands up in the air* I …